Mellow Digital Post
What’s the difference between the Mellow Digital Post and Mellow Post?
Mellow Post is the physical membership tier that includes a monthly postcard, letter, mini sticker sheet, and other small goodies delivered by mail.
The Mellow Digital Post is the online membership tier that gives you access to the Digital Garden, where you can join the penpal exchange, download monthly mail kits, and explore the interactive world behind Mellow Island.
How do I access the Digital Garden?
The Digital Garden is exclusive to Mellow Digital Post members. After you subscribe, you’ll receive an email within 1-2 hours with your island key. Simply use that key to enter the garden whenever you visit.
How does the penpal exchange work?
After joining the Mellow Digital Post, you’ll receive access to the penpal sign-up form. On the 5th of each month, you’ll receive your Islander match by email along with that month’s seasonal writing prompt and mail theme. From there, you’ll have the rest of the month to write and send out your letter before the next exchange begins.
How is member safety handled?
The exchange is part of a paid membership and is limited to those 18+, which helps encourage commitment and keeps the space centered around people who genuinely want to participate. Matches are handled privately, and only pen names are shared publicly throughout the process. Mailing addresses are only shared between matched participants with consent, and for anyone wanting a little extra privacy, letters can also be forwarded through the Mellow Post P.O. box instead.
When are penpal matches sent out?
Matches are sent via email on the 5th of every month.
To be included in the current month’s exchange, new members must submit their sign-up form by the 4th of the month. Any forms submitted after the 4th will automatically be included in the following month’s exchange. The sign-up form only needs to be filled out once for each member.
Do I need special supplies to participate?
Not at all! The printable mail kits inside the Digital Garden are downloadable files that you can print and use if you’d like, but a simple handwritten letter on paper is already more than enough. The exchange is meant to feel thoughtful and personal, not perfect or expensive. It’s actually encouraged to use what you already have at home!
What kind of things can I send?
Your mail can be as simple or thoughtful as you’d like. It can be handwritten letters, playlists, recipes, sketches, stickers, or pressed flowers. Try to keep everything under 1 oz if you’re using a Forever Stamp. There’s no need to make anything perfect or elaborate. A sincere letter is already something special to receive.
Can I write back to my penpal?
The exchange is designed around rotating monthly matches rather than ongoing one-to-one penpals. This helps keep the experience safer and lower pressure for everyone involved. If you happen to be matched with the same person again later on and both of you would like to continue writing, you’re welcome to do so outside of the exchange.
What if I forgot to send out my letter?
No worries! Life gets busy sometimes, and the exchange is meant to feel fun, not stressful. If you can, reach out to me and I can let your match know. In the meantime, send your letter whenever you’re able to. Even a simple note can still mean a lot to someone receiving it.
Can international members participate?
Not in the penpal exchange. For now, this pilot exchange is limited to members in the United States and Canada.
Do I have to participate in the exchange to join the Digital Garden?
Not at all! The Digital Garden is meant to be enjoyed at your own pace. You’re welcome to simply explore the space, download the monthly mail kits, read the prompts, and take part in the quieter parts of the community without participating in the penpal exchange.
How can I manage my subscription?
- You can pause, resume, or cancel anytime through your shop account.
- If you pause your membership, you will lose access to the Digital Garden until your membership is active again.
- If you’re participating in the penpal exchange, your final match will be for the month after you pause or cancel your membership.